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We decode etiquette, objects, and garden choreography through The Story of the Stone (Dream of the Red Chamber). This page uses a referenced glossary and edition-based sourcing to keep terms precise and respectful.

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Each program follows our method: Five Lenses (Time · Place · People · Objects · Actions) + Tensions + Verifiable notes. Key terms link to the glossary with edition references.

Quiet garden reading beside a winding stream

Quiet Garden Reading · Grain Rains (Encounter · 90 min)

City: SuzhouLang: EN/中文Group: 4–8

Why: Poetry reading in the Red Chamber world is social choreography: to receive, respond, and return a verse is to practice li[1] — ritual propriety that keeps feeling generous and critique humane.

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Penguin Classics (Hawkes/Minford) — see Sources & Editions.
Time: Grain Rains (mid–late April) sets a mood of “valuing what fades.”
Place: Stream + corridor regulate turn-taking and sightlines.
People: Host/elders → guests; praise before proposals.
Objects: shouzha[2] (letters), fans, incense as ritual tools.
Actions: Clean hands → round reading → gentle responses → return note.
Tension: contemplative pace vs. quick “check-in” travel Tension: private devotion vs. public sharing
Do
  • Receive another’s poem with two hands and a thank-you.
  • Use “I appreciate… because…” before suggestions.
  • Avoid filming thresholds and altars without consent.
Don’t
  • No phone use while someone reads.
  • Don’t parody women’s studio objects.
  • Don’t sit astride bridge rails/balustrades.
Term note: li often rendered “rites/ritual propriety” in sinology; we align English phrasing to narrative context and cite Penguin for passages.
Evidence & credits

Time frame: “Twenty-Four Solar Terms” (UNESCO 2016). Garden conduct: local museum/garden rules. Citations: Penguin Classics (Hawkes vols. 1–3; Minford vols. 4–5).

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Hands offering tea by a wooden threshold

Tea & Thresholds (Encounter · 90 min)

City: NanjingLang: EN/中文Group: 4–8

Why: “Door → seat → tea → talk” trains awareness of menkan[3] (threshold), titles, and sequence — a spatial ethics that maps relationships.

Time: Morning/evening salutations anchor rhythm.
Place: Threshold and screen set inside/outside boundaries.
People: Elders first; guests wait to be invited.
Objects: Cup, tray, receiving gestures.
Actions: Wait → seat → serve → converse.
Tension: indirect tact vs. direct debate Tension: household rites vs. business networking
Do
  • Slow your step over the threshold (left then right).
  • Align gaze and thanks when offering/receiving tea.
  • Use respectful titles before names.
Don’t
  • No surprise filming from behind screens.
  • Don’t take the host’s/elder’s seat.
  • Don’t treat tea tools as props for parody.
Term note: 门槛 / menkan literally “door-sill”; we keep “threshold” for clarity and cross-reference scenes in Penguin translation where entry etiquette matters.
Evidence & credits

Household rites adapted to contemporary contexts; site filming rules apply; textual alignment via Penguin vols. 1–5.

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Textiles, herbs and a small sachet in progress

Sachet & Boundaries (Workshop · Half-day)

City: YangzhouLang: EN/中文Group: 4–8

Why: Herbs and motifs are social signals. Choosing and gifting them well practices closeness with boundaries; see xiangnang[4].

Time: Around Duanwu (Dragon Boat) — warding herbs in season.
Place: Women’s craft rooms set privacy rules.
People: Recipient role shapes formula and motif.
Objects: Mugwort/patchouli; twin-lotus vs. pine-crane.
Actions: Briefing → stitching → gifting rehearsal.
Tension: hand-made warmth vs. commercial gift boxes Tension: intimacy vs. privacy
Do
  • For elders, pick longevity motifs (pine/crane).
  • Offer with two hands and a short greeting.
  • Ask about allergies before wearing.
Don’t
  • No parody of women’s studio objects.
  • No close-up filming without consent.
  • No eating in scented workspaces.
Term note: 香囊 / xiangnang appears across ICH practice and classical fiction; we keep “sachet” as standard rendering, with local craft notes appended.
Evidence & credits

Context: Dragon Boat Festival (UNESCO 2009). Local ICH partners for sachet craft. Safety & allergy notices given before entry.

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Embroidery sampler with auspicious motifs

Jiangnan Embroidery & Pattern Ethics (Workshop · Half-day)

City: SuzhouLang: EN/中文Group: 4–8

Why: Motifs carry blessings and taboos; learn when a “shou”[5] longevity sign is apt, and when a twin-lotus[6] implies intimacy.

Time: Festival calendars shape workshop rhythm.
Place: Seating order and peer-critique etiquette.
People: Master–apprentice coaching; consent for display.
Objects: Scrolling vine, shou, pomegranate abundance.
Actions: Demo → stitch practice → personal sampler.
Tension: traditional meanings vs. modern design Tension: private objects vs. public display
Do
  • Choose steady blessing motifs for elders’ gifts.
  • Ask consent before public exhibition.
  • Respect hand-made irregularities.
Don’t
  • No mockery of blessing/ritual motifs.
  • No “cute-ifying” mourning/ritual signs.
  • No branding over inscriptions.
Term note: We keep shou (壽) in pinyin to avoid misleading English paraphrases; glossary links to typographic variants and context notes.
Evidence & credits

Suzhou embroidery archives; Kunqu (UNESCO 2001/2008) as adjacent women’s-space aesthetics; citations standardized to Penguin for novel passages.

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Folding fan inscription and exchange

Fan Etiquette & Letters (Salon · 2 hours)

City: HangzhouLang: EN/中文Group: 6–12

Why: A folding fan links forms of address[7], inscription, exchange, and thanks — training grace without self-display.

Time: Summer fan gatherings and paced conversation.
Place: Corridor and waterside pavilions favor dialogue.
People: Host facilitates; guest order matters.
Objects: Fan ribs, inscription placement, ink choice.
Actions: Greeting → inscription → return gift → thanks.
Tension: private memento vs. public show Tension: literati elegance vs. commercial ghost-writing
Do
  • Ask preferred wording and placement before writing.
  • Mask private letters in public photos.
  • Prefer handwritten thanks.
Don’t
  • Don’t overwrite another’s inscription.
  • No livestreaming faces without consent.
  • No privacy jokes under a “cultured” cover.
Term note: 称谓 / chengwei (forms of address) governs tact; we retain pinyin where English is diffuse, and cite passages by vol./chapter.
Evidence & credits

Museum notes on fans and inscriptions; exhibit rules; related scenes referenced via Penguin vols. 1–5.

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Seasonal vegetarian banquet with seating order

Vegetarian Banquet (Residency · 1 day)

City: ShanghaiLang: EN/中文Group: 6–10

Why: A banquet is a social stage: seating, serving order, and phrasing of toasts teach reciprocal care without pressure.

Time: Seasonal menus (e.g., Minor Full; Mid-Autumn).
Place: Long vs. square table changes reach and roles.
People: Host, companion seat, guest seats.
Objects: Vessel shape, placement of cups, phrase cards.
Actions: Seating → toast → mutual yielding → thanks.
Tension: quiet restraint vs. visual spectacle Tension: tradition vs. allergies & diet
Do
  • Share allergies in advance; use public utensils.
  • Toast softly; keep the table inclusive.
  • Switch phrase cards by addressee.
Don’t
  • No loud video calls at table.
  • Don’t pass soupy dishes across seats.
  • No eating close-ups of others.
Evidence & credits

Ritual dining literature; venue hygiene & fire policy; solar terms (UNESCO 2016) for time framing.

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Cited glossary (translation choices)

We standardize English renderings for key terms and cite the edition family we follow. When quoting, we add vol./chapter/page.

  1. li 禮 — rendered “rites / ritual propriety” in sinological usage. We retain li + gloss to preserve scope (ethics, form, affect). Quotations, when used, follow Penguin Classics (Hawkes/Minford). ↑ back
  2. shouzha 手札 — personal letter; we keep pinyin + brief gloss to avoid misleading modern equivalences. Quoted instances sourced to Penguin. ↑ back
  3. menkan 门槛 — threshold; spatial boundary with etiquette implications (entry, seating, filming). Passages referenced to Penguin where threshold etiquette is narrated. ↑ back
  4. xiangnang 香囊 — sachet; ICH practice & literary motif. English “sachet” used; gifting scenes cross-checked against Penguin passages and local craft records. ↑ back
  5. shou 壽 — longevity character; we retain shou to keep cultural nuance. Visual variants noted in program materials; literary contexts sourced to Penguin. ↑ back
  6. twin-lotus 并蒂莲 — emblem of intimacy/unity; used with care in gifting contexts. Narrative parallels referenced to Penguin. ↑ back
  7. chengwei 称谓 — forms of address; governs tact and hierarchy. English phrasing varies by scene; we cite Penguin when quoting. ↑ back

Tip: Add more entries as programs expand; keep the same pattern (term → rendering → scope → “Penguin when quoting”).

Sources & editions

  1. Cao Xueqin, The Story of the Stone (Penguin Classics), trans. David Hawkes (vols. 1–3: The Golden Days, The Crab-Flower Club, The Warning Voice) and John Minford (vols. 4–5: The Debt of Tears, The Dreamer Wakes). Quotations on this site, when present, are drawn from these volumes with vol./chapter/page noted.
  2. Twenty-Four Solar Terms — UNESCO Representative List of the Intangible Cultural Heritage of Humanity (inscribed 2016). Used as the time-knowledge frame.
  3. Dragon Boat Festival — UNESCO ICH (inscribed 2009). Used for seasonal craft context (herbs/sachets).
  4. Local museum/garden visitor regulations (photography, behavior) — referenced in program evidence notes.

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